She Was Thrilled When Her Boyfriend Proposed to Her, but Her Sister Kept Reminding Her It Was a Sham and Made Wedding Planning a Nightmare

A woman recently found herself in an awkward position during the planning stages of her wedding. She was excited to plan her wedding, but her sister decided to antagonize her throughout the whole process. Here’s what she had to say.

She came from a broken home

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The woman explained that she came from a troubled upbringing. Her parents were addicts, and she was often neglected among her many sisters. The worst came when her mother gave up custody of her when she was just twelve years old—but she kept custody of her other siblings.

She found her first love

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Life went on for her. She fell in love with her first boyfriend at 16. They had their first child when she was 17, got married when she was 18, and she gave birth to twins at age 19. Their marriage lasted another decade before ending in divorce. “We both got help for our trauma/issues and now have a great co-parenting relationship,” she said.

She found love again

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After her divorce, she welcomed a new love into her life. She built a great relationship with a new boyfriend over the course of five years. After that, he proposed to her. She was overjoyed that her relationship was going so well. However, her sister was not.

Her sister kept butting in

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“Every time I talk to my oldest sister about the wedding, she mentions it’s not my first wedding,” the woman explained. Her sister even laid several ground rules since this would be the woman’s second wedding. She wasn’t allowed to wear white, she wasn’t allowed to ask for gifts, and it would have to be a small wedding.

Her sister took charge

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Beyond that, her sister even appointed herself as the one in charge of organizing the bridal shower. However, she said that this, too, would have to be scrapped. Her reasoning was that it wasn’t the original poster’s first wedding.

She was annoyed

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“I am well aware this is not my first wedding and don’t need to be reminded every time she asks me about the wedding,” said the woman. Furthermore, it was her fiancée’s first wedding, and she felt he deserved all of these experiences. So she was honest with her sister.

She pushed back

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The woman told her sister that her help with the bridal shower wouldn’t be necessary, as her bridal party would handle it instead. She told her sister she was welcome to come, but she didn’t want to force anyone to be a part of her second wedding if they didn’t want to be. But this only upset her sister.

Her sister wouldn’t let up

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“Now she thinks I am being dramatic and twisting her words,” said the woman. “She also mentioned again to tell the bridal party to make sure and put on the invitation not to bring gifts… I honestly don’t care if people bring gifts or not, but why is she pushing this?”

She asked the Internet

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The woman was at a loss for what to do. She didn’t want to have to shut her sister out completely, but she also knew that her fiancé deserved better, since he was the youngest of his family and had never been married. She turned to the Internet for advice.

People responded

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“It’s weird that she seems so focused on downplaying your wedding,” said one commenter. “It doesn’t sound like she has your best interest at heart.” Another agreed, “She sounds as if she isn’t happy at all that you are getting married. If that is the case, uninvite her.”

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