23 Secrets Men Won’t Admit They Daydream About

It is totally normal to have fantasies, and some men even share the exact same ones. A recent online survey asked, “What is something that all men fantasize about?” Here are the top 23 answers.

Being loved

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“Literally said this before I clicked on the comment section.”

“Mine is to be loved for me and not for what they think I can be or what I can do for them.”

A really good hug

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“I can’t tell you how many girls I’ve chosen to pursue or not pursue entirely based on their hugging abilities.”

“An unprompted genuine hug is huge. I’ve had hugs over a decade ago that I still think about sometimes.”

Doing nothing

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“Doing nothing, having nothing to do, and being left alone to do it.”

“You mean playing video games for nine hours straight while forgetting to eat? I agree!”

Comebacks to future arguments

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“Where’d you get those pants? The toilet store?”

“And from arguments we had five years ago…”

Having a comfortable and secure life

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“I spend longer than I should be thinking (fantasizing essentially) about how I would re-live my life if I could, in order to have that ‘comfortable and secure’ life. I’m 53.”

Being truly cared about

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“My only desire is for someone to care. I’ll fall head over heels for them.”

“I have recently started dating somebody who treats me better than anybody that I’ve ever dated, and I still have kind of a wall up about it because I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. It’s a strange feeling to be truly cared about.”

Saving or ruling the world

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“Sometimes, news and politics get so ridiculously stupid that I get serious ‘Fine, I’ll do it myself’ vibes.”

“What does it say about my personality that I do the same thing but with ruling the world? Like a utopia, but still.”

Taking a nap

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“Napping is the best thing ever. The thing I look forward to the most on weekends is napping.”

“I’m glad I’m not the only one that fantasizes about taking a nap.”

Sleep in general

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“The older I get, the more I realize my cat has life pretty well figured out.”

“I fantasize about the back of my eyelids all the time.”

Doing something really cool and unexpected public

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“One time, I was at a concert, and I saw a sealed beer can be launched overhead the crowd and flying directly toward this girl’s head. Before I even thought, I made a wildly difficult one-handed catch about an inch from her head. I’m not usually coordinated, so it was all the better. The crowd in the vicinity went wild. That has been the peak of my manhood and something that I wish could happen every day.”

“I dream of this day.”

Being appreciated and respected

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“I used to fantasize about this, but it seemed too unrealistic, so now I fantasize about having my own spaceship.”

“A dream.”

Winning the lottery and moving away

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“Winning the lottery and moving away to never be heard from again…”

Being pursued, for once

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“Having somebody that you’re talking to or dating actively pursue you for once.”

“Oh boy, now that is for real.”

Random combat scenarios

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“Walking through the grocery store or library or shopping mall, etc.: ‘What would I do if ninjas attacked…’”

“For some reason, I thought I was the only one that does this.”

Basic happiness

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“I fantasize about it, but I’ll never achieve it. The best I can do is make my family feel that way.”

“I’d settle for contentment.”

Befriending a wild animal

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“I want a semi-pet crow. One that just comes to visit and trades trinkets for peanuts.”

“I befriended a wild fox once when I was in my late teens. She would come to the house every day and sit with me for an hour or so most nights. Eventually, she had cubs and brought them along to show them to me.”

Peace and quiet

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“This makes me think of Andrei in War and Peace … he sought the drums of war for the peace and quiet, though only at first.”

Paying your mortgage off

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“It’s not only men who fantasize about that!”

“Or better, having their mortgage NOT PAID OFF, and the bank can’t do anything about it!”

Living a simple, peaceful life in a log cabin

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“Getting a small plot of land in some remote location and building a log cabin and just going and living a simple, peaceful life.”

“This! Near a lake so that I can fish, and there has to be a grizzly bear that becomes my best friend.”

Back scratches

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“Back scratches are so good.”

“They make men purr like walruses.”

Holding off an advancing force while your loved ones escape

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“While Hearts of Iron by Sabaton play.”

“I once held back a swaying crowd in a concert because the small woman in front of me fell. I’ve never felt more like an action hero in my whole life when I yelled, ‘GET UP!’ while bodily restraining hundreds of people behind me.”

Someone to play videogames with

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“Find you a SO that will play games with you. Makes life so much better.”

“It’s tough to find either male or female friends that stick around nowadays. Folks ghost or lose interest in both you and games quickly.”

Bad people getting what they deserve

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“Sadly, it rarely actually happens.”

“It really gets me when bad people thrive within this world we all exist in. It sucks.”

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