19 “Ladies Problems” All Men Are Totally Oblivious To

Everyone has insecurities, but people don’t usually care about them as much as you think. A recent online survey asked, “Men, what insecurities do you often see in women that you couldn’t care less about?” Here are the top responses.

Being on your period

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I genuinely don’t care if you happen to get your period around me. It doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I’ll change the sheets and go right back to bed. You can wear one of my pants while I wash yours. Need pads/tampons? Tell me what you want, and I’ll run to the store. It’s 100% natural, and any man who freaks out about periods has the mindset of a 13-year-old.”

“Guys, learn to get over periods. There’s nothing ‘unmasculine’ about caring for your girl when she feels like rubbish. In fact, knowing what to do and taking care of business is exactly masculine if you have to think of it that way.”

Having large pores

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What is with women’s obsession with their pores?! I don’t think I’ve ever looked at a woman and been like, ‘She’d be so hot if it wasn’t for those pores.’”

“As a guy, I’ve never once thought, ‘ew, she has bad skin.’”

Your sense of humor

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Your sense of humor. If you’re funny, cool. If you’re not, then you don’t have to force it. And please don’t hide your weird little sense of humor.”

Studying STEM subjects

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In Computer Science courses, women typically do not think they are doing as well as the men in the course even when they have top grades. As a Computer Science teacher, I’ve gotten in the habit of pulling all excelling women aside and explaining they are doing amazing, especially in lower-level courses. This has helped keep women from dropping out too early.”

“It is significantly more common in women than men, at least in STEM fields. Several studies in Computer Science have shown this. And it isn’t that they don’t think there is someone doing better, but that even when getting an A, they think they are not cut out to be in the field.”

Wearing the same outfit again

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“I don’t like surprises. I’ve seen that dress, I know it looks good on you. Wear it if you want.”

I was actually talking to my wife about this last week. Apparently, women don’t dress for men at all. When they’re going through 10 different outfit options, it’s because they’re trying to impress women!”

Your shoes

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I’ve never noticed your shoes, I just compliment them cause I know it makes you happy.”

“A girl could probably wear a black shoe and a brown shoe, and I wouldn’t even notice.”

Having chest scars

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I wouldn’t worry about it. If it’s a dealbreaker for a guy, then you probably are better off with someone else.”

“I dated a girl who had gotten very serious burns on her chest in freshman year of college. She still had quite a bit of scarring when we were together. Honestly, didn’t bother me in the least.”

Looking big in jeans

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I still don’t understand why this would ever be considered a bad thing.”

“Girls are still insecure about this?”

Having freckles

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My wife is SUPER self-conscience about her freckles. And I’ve known other women to be too. I love them. I think they’re super cute and wouldn’t change a thing.”

“This is awesome to hear. I’ve always loved freckles, but almost every woman I’ve met with them complains about them. I hope this changes and they become more mainstream.”

Caring how you look when you eat

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“When she looks into your eyes as she strips the chicken wing down to the bone.”

The only table manner that matters is being kind to the wait staff.”

Social media pictures

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I know what you look like in real life. There’s no need to go overboard.”

“I saw an article the other day about how people are going into plastic surgeon offices with pictures of themselves with filters and saying, ‘Make me look like that.’ It’s really sad.”

Untidy eyebrows

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We might notice if one is missing. Might.

“I haven’t gotten my eyebrows done in months, and my boyfriend told me that they looked great today. He had no idea.”

Not having a thigh gap

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Yeah, man. If Beyonce doesn’t need a thigh gap, then neither do I.

My girlfriend has the opposite problem. She’s self-conscious that she HAS a thigh gap. I try to tell her it’s silly, that a lot of girls would love that, and that I don’t really care at all one way or the other.”

Not wearing makeup

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I used to know a girl (who I went to school with) who was so insecure about her looks it was sad. She wouldn’t even let her own parents see her without makeup, even when she was really sick. She used to drag herself out of bed to put makeup on every morning before then going back to bed. In hindsight, I feel really bad for her and hope she’s better now.”

My mom was like that. ‘Never leave the house if you can’t look presentable.’ was one of her frequent quotes.”

Being tall

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Admittedly, I would probably be one of the people staring, but that’s because I find tall women extremely attractive. Not all the attention is (meant to be) negative.”

I’m 5’9, and my husband is 5’4. He is a truly awesome human, and we would both have missed out on so much love and friendship if either of us had let our insecurities and societal expectations influence us.”

Being emotional

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A lot of girls seem to think that “being one of the guys” is the way to go. They often have emotional moments and later apologize for the ‘event.’”

“With my ex, the talks we had when one or both of us were very emotional were what made a relationship great. Nobody should be afraid to show emotions. It helps bring people closer and feels amazing.”

Stretch marks

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Your body changed at some point in the past. This happens. Most people have them somewhere.”

“I had a friend who told his then-girlfriend that he liked the stretchmarks on her thighs because they looked ‘like tiger strips.’ Once we thought of it that way, hers did look really cool.”

Body hair

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Every time my wife stops me and says I didn’t shave my legs, I say it’s ok, neither did I.”

“I may be weird, but I sometimes associate unshaven legs not exactly as a turn-on but as a signal of intimacy.”

The little things

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“Seriously, what’s split ends?”

I started a new job where I work with mostly men. A week into my job, I cut off 10 inches of hair. None of the guys noticed, but the female receptionist I hadn’t been introduced to yet noticed.”

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